FAQs

Why would anyone hire a bridesmaid?

  • You don’t have a lot of lady friends - this is nothing to be ashamed of! I work in a very male dominated field and I have traditionally masculine hobbies, so I completely understand having times of your life where you don’t have a lot of close girlfriends. 

  • You want even numbers on each side during the ceremony - some people say this is old fashioned and doesn’t matter, but it’s perfectly okay to still want it! 

  • One of your bridesmaids dropped out - unfortunately it happens, no need to have an awkward gap.

  • You don’t want your friends to have to “work” at your wedding - let the hired folks do the work so your friends can just have fun!

  • Your friends get messy when they drink or smoke - I learned in my sorority days that you always need one sober friend to wrangle the drunk girlies. Maybe you even need someone to wrangle your very blunt cousin or handsy uncle. I aim to bring sophistication to any wedding in which I am involved!

Why should you plan my bachelorette party or honeymoon?

  • I’ve traveled extensively throughout the US, Europe, and Asia.

  • I love spending time looking for unique and less traveled places.

  • I’m very experience driven, whether it’s incredible food, or a once in a lifetime excursion, I will find it!

  • Unlike other travel agents, I will create an experience tailored to you and your friends/partner, not a generic experience or one tailored to my preferences.

  • I’m experienced in planning international trips for groups, I’m most proud of planning a 5 person trip to Ireland and a 9 person trip to Korea and Japan.

Why are you a good bridesmaid?

  • First and foremost, I am a yapper. I will not be an awkward quiet person that nobody knows. 

  • I’m very experienced with weddings.

  • I’m a very good secret keeper.

  • I’m a jack of all trades, master of none, which gives me the unique ability to have something to talk about with just about anyone.

  • I work a fully remote 9-5, so I have a lot of flexibility for travel.

  • I’m very confident in my ability to make people feel comfortable, I unfortunately am the person that strangers want to talk to on the plane or in the waiting room.

Do I have to tell people you’re a hired bridesmaid?

You can tell your guests that I’m a hire, or you can keep it a secret (I recommend telling your fiancé!). If you want to keep it under wraps, we’ll work together to come up with a story, usually just saying we met on BumbleBFF is good enough for people not to ask questions. 

Do I have to tell people that I didn’t plan my bachelorette party/honeymoon?

It’s up to you!

Will you sign an NDA?

Yes!

Have you attended religious ceremonies?

I have! I’m always very respectful of cultures and religions that I am not apart of and do my due diligence to educate myself before the ceremony.

Can you bring a plus one?

Yes, my wonderful boyfriend Sam will happily attend weddings with me, he is very food motivated.

How far out do I need to book?

Prices go up three months, two months, and one month out from the event, but I will keep my schedule up to date!

Where are you willing to travel?

Anywhere! I require at least a 60 day notice for any non US travel.

You’re a bit young to be my bridesmaid, can you recommend someone a little older?

My mom Cheryl is available for bridesmaid and mother of the bride/groom services! We’ll even tag-team as a bridesmaid and MOB.

Do you do LGBT weddings?

Absolutely!

Do you do military weddings?

Yes!

Have you ever stood on the groom’s side?

Yes!

Would you dye your hair for a wedding?

I’d much rather not!

What if I have an odd request?

I’m always open to wingwomaning in whatever way I can, schedule an initial consultation with me and we can discuss your specific situation.

  • Here’s some more unique things I’ve done:

    • Helped plan a groom’s proposal, acted as if I were a hiker who just happened to be there for the perfect photo of him down on one knee.

    • Been tasked specifically with keeping a groomsman away from a bridesmaid.

    • Asked to attend a wedding to occupy a bride’s parents during the cocktail hour.